Tuesday, November 8, 2005

Reading Between the Lines

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Yesterday, and really unexpected, somebody sent a text message to me. The number is not familiar and definitely not in my phone book. I recognized it is not a cel phone number. I realized later on that it came from a text chat feature of a known on line community. Usually this kind of service is free. The text came from a long time acquaintance, that I couldn't consider a friend. Honestly, the level is still within that, nothing more than what can be derived from the rate of communication we have.

Unfortunately, I decided before posting to delete the exchange of short messages which I had included in this entry. To summarize, I was amused, entertained then irked.

After repeating the first line that was sent, I did not reply anymore. The conceited creature assumed too much. He thought he could maneuver the world with his wild imaginations and insensibilities. He must have thought that I am an easy prey, and with the superficial messages, I can be lead on.

I could just read between the lines and I know a friend could not do that, sending messages that are not really meant. I must be overreacting or onion-skinned. But I am not praise-hungry nor adulation-crazy. I know when a message is of pure intention.


I don't know... I maybe just touchy.


Or I was more insulted than sweet-talked.

7 comments:

  1. I don't usually read messages from unknown sources. Pinaka pet peeve ko yung mga chain messages. Delete kagad. hehe'

    Reading between the lines too much can sometimes be misleading, though. Baka naman you're putting too much meaning to something mundane or something sincere. Paalala lang baga.

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  2. hi, mr rolly,

    sayang nga kasi i decided not to post the text messages. though when somebody other than me would read the message, it would not be given an unpleasant meaning, i had read it differently becuz i know the person. i know his character, that's why. and hindi siya sincere na tao (at mahabang kwento, kung bakit). my friends can joke around but i cant be affected sa mga jokes na ganun. it's just that the person is not really a friend, he's so 'hambog'.

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  3. Marami rin ngang ako na-meet na taong ganyan..expecting that they could convince everyone to act for them or special treatment by their vain talks...too assuming and egoist....

    Well...people varies....including closed friends and those assuming to be one...hehehehe

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  4. Just ignore the SOB...ang wrinkles ;-)

    Unwelcome messages are,in a way, a form of intrusion to your private life.

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  5. hi, flexj! nakaka-TO ang mga taong ganun!

    ka webspy or he's making fun of me?

    rhada he didnt receive a reply anymore, and will never receive any pag inulit nya iyon...

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  6. It happens...

    We just ignore them and move on.

    Hi Bing! :-)

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  7. hi, ronallan, yes, ignore them... how are you? 'censya na di nakakabisita madalas... busy kasi.

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