Tuesday, April 3, 2007

Sharing Everything Together

Sharing everything in life as a couple can be considered as one of the secrets of staying with each other for a long time. I believe it does not depend on you wearing all the time your wedding rings even if your ring fingers are already screaming out to remove them because they had grown bigger after years. No, I don't think so. Your wedding rings or any other symbols cannot guarantee a long-time relationship. But I digress.


Both of you should share the laughter and the tears, the joys and the sorrow, the successes and the failures, or in short, the ups and downs of married life. There is a story I want to share with everybody about a sweet couple. Who could ever beat this?


The little old couple walked slowly into McDonalds that cold winter evening. They looked out of place amid the young families and young couples eating there that night. Some of the customers looked admiringly at them.


You could tell what the admirers were thinking. "Look, there is a couple who has been through a lot together, probably for 60 years or more!"


The little old man walked right up to the cash register, placed his order with no hesitation and then paid for their meal.


The couple took a table near the back wall and started taking food off the tray. There was one hamburger, one order of french fries and one drink.


The little old man unwrapped the plain hamburger and carefully cut it in half. He placed one half in front of his wife. Then he carefully counted out the french fries, divided them in two piles and neatly placed one pile in front of his wife. He took a sip of the drink, his wife took a sip and then set the cup down between them.


As the man began to eat his few bites of hamburger the crowd began to get restless. Again you could tell what they were thinking. "That poor old couple. All they can afford is one meal for the two of them."


As the man began to eat his french fries one young man stood and cameover to the old couple's table. He politely offered to buy another meal for the old couple to eat. The old man replied that they were just fine.They were used to sharing everything.


Then the crowd noticed that thelittle old lady hadn't eaten a bite. She just sat there watching her husband eat and occasionally taking turns sipping the drink.


Again the young man came over and begged them to let him buy them something to eat. This time the lady explained that no, they were used to sharing everything together.


As the little old man finished eating and was wiping his face neatly with a napkin the young man could not stand it no longer.


Again he came over to their table and offered to buy some food. After being politely refused again he finally asked a question to the little old lady.


"Maam, why aren't you eating? You said that you share everything. What is it that you are waiting for?"


She answered, "the teeth".


Can you beat that?



By the way, yesterday was our wedding anniversary. It is a simple celebration with Fundador, Legends, Nagaraya, spaghetti, Piattos, and sisig. It was supposed to be a celebration for two. Then came the unexpected friends who joined. No regrets actually. It sort of added to the joy of still living together with loved ones and friends around.



It always feels good sharing life with you, Papsie.

21 comments:

  1. Tutularan yan ng mga anak niyo, pagmamahal niyo sa isa't -isa..."Tel det du yu fart" Bing at Mang Tomas!

    Aba pareho pala tayo ng paborito..Fundador!(fayn di dor ef yu kan, pauwi...pag lasing ka na!)

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  2. Congratulations!

    May God bless you both.

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  3. he he tel det du yu fart.. gandang vow yun, a.!

    i almost can't find the door after Fundador, noypetes ha ha

    thanks, rolly. :-)

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  4. Happy wedding anniversary bing! Hope you'll have many more to come.

    That story's hilarious. :)

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  5. LOL :) I'm quite sure the couple share the same tootbrush, and who knows, even the same underwear hehehe :)

    Didn't know you drink brandy Bingskee :) Happy anniv. and may you have many more ! Keep making Papsie happy hehe :)

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  6. thank you, ipanema. am i glad you appreciated the story.

    ha ha ha underwear?!? cant help myself laughing at the thought of papsie wearing my undies ha ha wont do him justice :-(

    i love brandy, bw. will you bring me one when you visit Pinas? he he thank you for the wishes. i ALWAYS make him happy :-D

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  7. Happy anniversary, Bing! May you have many more to come :)

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  8. Whoaa! Again I'm late, anyways let me wish you guys a Happy Wedding Anniversary. What? No beer? Masarap ang sisig pag me beer... :-)

    Life is good when you have somebody at your side who'll be with you through thick and thin and not leave you in your most trying times...

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  9. Happy Anniversary, Bingskee and Papie! =)

    A toast to more wonderful years together!

    Cheers! =)

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  10. Happy anniversary and more blessings to come to you, Papsie and the kids!

    Ang sarap ng celebration nyo... miss ko na ang Nagaraya, Piattos and sisig. :)

    I sure hope there won't come a time when my husband and I would have to share our teeth... haha!

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  11. Happy Anniversary Bing! That's a simple but sweet way of celebrating an anniversary. The important thing is you're together and happy :)

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  12. and i am late in responding, sorry guys! eneweiz...

    single, i don't drink beer, and so does, papsie, too. it has malt at bawal yun sa hypertensive. :-) thank you for the wish. couldnt agree more that life is good with somebody by your side, someone you love very much, of course. :-)

    thank you, houseband. :-)

    sarap na pulutan, no, toe? i think the story was made to purely make everybody laugh. would be impossible for two people to have the same teeth structure, i think.. :-D

    wala kasing pang-resto, verns ha ha but it is truly one of the best moments of my life. Fundador is the key he he :-D

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  13. Happy Easter, Ms. Bing!
    Nakakatuwa/Nakakainggit ang story ng old couple.
    Belated Happy Anniv sa inyo ni Papsie. Ang sweet naman.

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  14. hi, malaya. belated happy easter to you! thanks sa wish. :-D

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  15. Belated happy anniversary!

    Sharing is letting your better half into your world and living an inclusive life together. My better half and I share everything, stories about our work, our pride of achievements, our frustrations of not getting things done, our fears and hopes and above all our money!!! We have done this since we were an item and never gave a second thought about it.

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  16. thanks, bayi! nice to read what you and your better half share. it is in sharing that you find strength also. :-)

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  17. Thanks. Without her, I am nothing! :)

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