Saturday, November 3, 2007

A Different View

"Are there things true to all humans?" my son asked me before we went to the cemetery. "What do you mean by that?" I asked. He continued by telling me that he wonders if there is a common factor that we all humans share. He told me that not everybody is wealthy or poor, not everybody is educated or uneducated, not everybody is happy or sad, etc. "Every human being is born, and everybody dies," I answered him with a coy smile.


 


"Oo nga, 'no (Oh, yes, isn't it true)?" he said realizing the truth to the fact that I had just said. It occurred to my mind that still many think that humans are at an advantage when he dies rich, even to the point of being filthy rich. Still a lot think that they are at edge because they are surrounded with the many good things in life. Still a lot think that they will die in peace when they are bloated with the many material things this world has to offer. This is why everyone of us is preoccupied, or had been preoccupied even once, with the desire to be rich. An in-law once told me that the death of a wealthy man and a poor man differs. My unspoken thought wanted to tell her, "No one can bring his material gains when he dies, everyone dies the same physical death." The only difference that matters is how each person perceives death - Is it the beginning? Or is it the end? Is there life after death? Or is life simply terminated and nothing follows after the physical death?



If death is the beginning of something new, or the dawn of a phase of another (everlasting) life that was promised, how then would we prepare ourselves to be worthy of the privilege? Or if life, on the other hand, will be ended just like that, would it be acceptable that human beings live life the way they wanted to - unmindful of the consequences, defiant to laws and regulations, and to polices and disciplines, or wildly experimenting taboos? Because if the life of a human being just simply stops after physical death, why bother doing what is good? We die anyway and nothing or no one will scrutinize what we have done good.



The thing is most of us is in a state of denial that we are not doing enough to earn a place in Heaven. (That is, if one believes in Heaven.) We still cling to the old-time inherited beliefs that our kins who will be left behind will pray for our souls no matter how we had waned from our good ways and from our faith. There are still those who even pray for the aborted unborn baby who was innocent still and had not even had the chance to see this world. We still do those preposterous ways of earning points in Heaven. Believing so, we get absorbed to this material world, and forgetting to truly enrich the spirit.



I may have a different view from many but this is what I honestly believe in about death: Death is just the beginning. There is life after death. And I should do my assignment.

13 comments:

  1. All of us have to experience death when the time comes. Some people fear Death because they'll lose all the material things in the world; their family, belongings, et cetera. But like what you've said, Death is just the beginning and it is only up to each entity to believe that there is life after death.

    (:

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  2. Hay nako, I really really hope that there is life after death, rather than a void of darkness...

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  3. hi, kyels! it is understandable to feel pain with the thought that we will be leaving behind all that matters to us or all that are important to us. but it is different to feel reluctance to go away leaving one's riches. :-)

    if it's a void of darkness, then probably you would not be knowing it anymore, single. i mean, the choice is between having a life after death and nothing after death. if it's nothing then we sense nothing. he he :-D

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  4. What separates men from animals is the desire to live with dignity. Society for the most part is responsible for instilling in us that sense of dignity, that we ought to live as people who care for our fellowmen and for our country. Religion can also reinforce this notion but you and I know that too much of religion can end up in chaos when people start to believe that they are God's chosen people and all others are unworthy of God's favors :( Sucide bombers and terrorist remind me of such people :(

    When we talk about people who don't believe in a creator like the atheist, we immediately think that they have no morals since they have no accountability to any God. This kind overly prejudiced thinking is for the most part guesswork because most atheists value their singular chance at life and live it to the fullest . Morals aren't necessarily taught by religion. Morals are somewhat ingrained in society and as long as we believe in the notion of live and let live, this world can be a much better place to live in :)

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  5. I honestly don't know my belief when it comes to life after death. I mean of course my orientation is that there is life but now I really don't know what I believe.

    The reason why I try to do what is right while I'm living is not because I want to be rewarded after I die (because well, like I said I don't know if something is in store after this life). I think it's mainly because I want my life now to be good, or at least try to make it good by doing good things. I mean if you do crappy things, eventually your life will be crappy and I don't like that.

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  6. I believe in life after death, heaven and hell, and that our eternal destination can be determined while we are still alive.

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  7. hay, miss bing, i like this entry. it reminded me that life here on earth is really just temporary.

    kids always ask such though-provoking questions, 'no?:)

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  8. bwyour idea about how society and religion instill to us that sense of dignity reminded me of Veronica in the book When Veronica Decides to Die where she asks what normal means because it can be what and how society dictates what normal is.

    religion to the extreme can turn to fanaticism because it transforms from being a basic undoubted belief to obsessiveness or madness. i believe religion has more meaning than being obsessed or mad.

    morals, i agree, aren't necessarily thought by religion but can be part of a religion. and since they are rules of conduct against right or wrong, it would be unfair to say that atheists are immoral. you are right by saying that knowledge of right and wrong is ingrained in us. without regard to atheists, the point in question is if there is or there isn't life after death.

    more like a belief about karma, isn't it, verns? :-)

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  9. i believe so, too, lazarus. i remembered a friend who told me that there are many kinds of faith in this world and it's a matter of choosing what to believe in. one can even have faith in the moon. but if it is eternal damnation that would be the guideline, how can i have faith in the moon?

    yes, baby pink, life is temporary but i believe that life is best lived with faith in God. :-) and yes, kids always ask thought-provoking questions. palagi akong nasasalang ha ha :-D

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  10. The belief of life after death is dictated by one's religious faith and as they say, faith does not require proof .

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  11. Jehovah's Witnesses do not believe in qan afterlife. They don not even believe in a separate soul.

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  12. hay...of all your blogs, this is the first i need to encounter. grrr...that word is such a pain to me as my father just died last august. how do i describe such pain? it's like i have 4 corners, one collapsed and i am suddenly unprotected. it's the hardest hardest most painful thing i've experienced. the fact that i was away when it happened, i felt and is still feeling guilty. i should have stayed, i should have stayed yet i didn't. because if i did, it would be like waiting for him to die. i am so troubled. i cry and cry most nights, i still couldn't move on. the guilt i am experiencing, the loneliness, the nightmares i am having, remembering what he was into during those months, our talks, our sufferings, especially his sufferings,..these things keep haunting me. so this is what death brings to me. life after death? so they say there is one. i don't know and i don't fucking care. all i know is it's a rotten thing.

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  13. hi, charie. i am so sorry to hear about your father. cathy just told me about it. cliche it may sound, time heals the wounds. it will come to pass. i am also very close to my father. when he died i was so hurt, too. the situation was very different from yours because i had no one when he died. i was not close to my mother. she has a weak personality. and i had to stand for the family. suddenly, the burden became the children's burden - we have to work, look for money to buy food and pay for everything we need. my mother did not do anything. the greatest part of the burden fell on me. there was almost not enough time to ponder about my father's death. it was like i cannot mourn enough because there are mouths to feed. but i survived. papa's death is not painful anymore. remembering him, the good things about him, is enough for me to go on and live life.

    i know the feeling that it was like there wasnt enough time to show my father that i love him. i felt guilty because i was not able to provide enough medicine for him because i was already married. there were so many unspoken words. but God is good, cha. He will give you enough strength to go on and be able to bear the pain.

    i hope one day you would care to ponder about life after death... God bless! i'll be praying that time would heal your wound through God's mercy.

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