Tuesday, April 18, 2006

Patterns

Bernard is a product of a dysfunctional family. Their father dominated everybody. It was his rules that should be obeyed. Nobody should go against him. Their subservient mother rarely voiced her opinions and ideas. She will choose to be silent than to speak, even if it means speaking for her children.


The father refused the idea that his children should go to college. He believes that they can acquire jobs as high school graduates just like him. He wanted one of her daughters to go abroad to be a japayuki and earn lots of money. The daughter went with a separated man, had four kids with him, and is currently unemployed. The other daughter chose to work at an early age after high school and lived separately, away from home.


It only took several years before Bernard was diagnosed to be mentally ill. According to his mother, he was duped to trying shabu once, and perhaps that was the cause of it all. The institution for mental patients released him after a few weeks because his was not a grave case, and besides the institution had limited accommodations, which was solely for those with serious mental illnesses.


The community where the family belongs got used to the family’s scenario later on. When Bernard throws fits, it was such like another common event in their household. Barangay tanods will arrive to bring him to the barangay hall and keep him through the night. It is such a pattern that some people wonder if Bernard is really mentally ill because the causes of the sudden outbursts will always be that he was not given money to buy cigarette or food, or that he cannot sleep. When they talk to him, he can converse naturally. He can even bet on his horserace favorite just like every normal neighborhood fellow.


Bernard’s traits are intentional. He wanted everybody to believe that he is sick. When he is brought to the hospital, he forges his depression but rejects the idea of being admitted. Such is the case of people with Munchausen Syndrome, an illness where a patient intends to deceive medics and relatives into believing that he is sick. He believes that by doing so, he will receive support and attention, which is lacking because he was neglected or deprived before or when he was younger. And truly, he receives attention from his mother who supports him with cigarettes against doctor’s advice.


Munchausen syndrome is an artificial sickness. Those afflicted have indications by way of (1) total fabrication, (false claims), (2) simulation (mimicking symptoms of illnesses), (3) illness aggravation (attempts to worsen a disease), or (4) illness induction (attempts to produce an illness or symptoms of an illness).


False psychological disorders presenting depression is much less common in Munchausen Syndrome patients. Patients commonly fabricate anemia, rash, fever, and bleeding. These patients hop from one hospital to another, creating exaggerated tales of their illnesses, and very willing, too, to undergo tests. Unmarried, unemployed, and estranged men are those that tend to display these symptoms.

13 comments:

  1. I've read about this syndrome before, It was also a subject of a medical drama on TV many years ago, wherein a patient claiming to be suffering from wounds inflicted in the Vietnam war kept bouncing from one hospital to another seeking attention from every doctor.

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  2. I know someone who's suffering from this syndrome, in and out of the hospital, and the family is running out of patience.

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  3. Is Munchausen Syndrome taken from the name of Baron Munchausen? (A book about a man telling exagerrated tall tales about his war & hunting adventures).

    I've never known this disorder. It's sad how a man's want for attention can get them into this kind of illness... which only resides in their minds.

    thanks for dropping.

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  4. someone told me that i have a "ksp syndrome" (jokingkly...) he said i am an attention seeker...

    but according to several, SEVERAL, personality tests including one from a registered psychiatrist... i want to be left in peace... as in i am a loner... my friends declined the idea...

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  5. hi, single, i feel pity for these people even if they fabricate stories. the need for attention drives them to be one.

    the more's the pity, 'ika nga, ann. but we cant blame if relatives run out of patience, feeling kasi nun parang niloloko.

    you are very right, the thought is residing in their minds - that they are deprived of the support and attention they need. i think they lack the capacity to do something for the lack, resulting to the illness. yes, rey, the label came from Baron Munchausen.

    monmon, iba naman ang kaso mo he he :-P

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  6. reverse munchausen is more bizzare. there was a mother who kept on making her child sick so people would give her sympathy. Those with less gastric mucosal lining should stop reading the next sentence lest they become hyperemetic (yung mahinahina sikmura hwag nang basahin ang mga susunod na isusulat ko dahil baka masuka lamang kayo)... she kept on injecting her son's IV fluid (dextrose) with water from the toilet bowl.

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  7. that is also calle munchausen by proxy, di ba, TK? from what i read, there was another case where a mother made her child puke and brought her to the hospital pretending not to know the cause.

    pero yang kinwento mo, sobra naman, ano?

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  8. never heard of this illness before. I pity those who are afflicted mentally because it seems to be too hard to cure. No one can fight your demons for you. It has to be accompanied by your strong will and acceptance that you are sick. Yata ha. I don't know.

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  9. it was a surprise to learn of it, too, mr rolly. like you, i pity mentally ill individuals. there are those who cant bear them and i always tell them, they do not know what exactly are they doing, so there is no reason to be angdy with them. instead they have to be pitied.

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